Thursday, May 19, 2011

Rainy Days, and The Gorgeous People



When I was in Australia teaching environmental education six years ago now (wow!), Sonya, one of the CVA (Conservation Volunteers Australia) volunteers, was the first one to mention the word "gorgeous" when describing another human being. "Oh, Graham?" she would say. "He's gorgeous! You'll love him!" So, right away I was thinking that he's hot and super cute or fine or something along those lines of "gorgeousness". Well, Graham turned out to be about 58-years old and, while not a bad looking chap, not exactly what I had in mind. But, after a while, and a bit of time talking to Graham who turned out to be very kind, I realized that there are a group of people in Australia that I have fondly come to think of as the "Gorgeous People". Essentially, the kind and warm and generous people that I had been lucky enough to meet while there. The ones that came to me as strangers but left me as something else, something akin to friends. I decided then that I liked this term, "gorgeous", and that I would use it a bit more from time to time...

Now, six years later, during this unusually rainy early summer in Colorado, it smells like Australia outside. It smells like an earthy cool Wisconsin morning in the fall; the crisp breeze off Lake Michigan; the humid mist of the Redwoods in California; and, yes, an unusually rainy summer downpour in the heat of Colorado summer. Wet, overcast, cool, earth...but that smell reminds me mostly of Tasmania and South Australia - where I met some of the most gorgeous people in the world.

Could it be that these people came to me as that much more extraordinary because I was essentially on my own in OZ? Certainly. Could it be that I am, in fact, surrounded by Gorgeous People every day of my life but fail to notice them because I am bogged down by everyday responsibility? Yes. So, I feel blessed by the rain today because it has slowed me down just enough to remember and realize the gorgeousness in us all.

Wednesday, May 18, 2011


Traveling Alone?

A friend once asked me why I like doing so many things alone. My answer, after a few minutes of careful thought, was that none of us ever truly do anything ALONE. At least for me, when I travel - no matter if it's to Australia, South America, or Asia (actually, I haven't been to Asia yet) - I am never truly alone while traveling. There is always another human being to meet, when I am ready to meet him or her. But the real beauty of traveling independently is the possibility - the chance encounter with another human being that I never would have experienced if I were with a trusted companion.

Because of the beauty and, yes, at times, pure absurdity, that has ensued in my travels not only over seas but also stateside, I have long since had a dream. This dream consists of connecting women, and sure, even men, with like minds; people passionate about exploring this earth in search of how they can better themselves. I'm after uncomfortable solo stories, true elation, pivotal moments, misadventures, trip advice, and ecstatic life experiences. If I ever decide to head off to India to partake of my own spiritual pursuit, I'd love for this to be a spot where I can share that experience in hopes it might inspire another woman down the road. And, most importantly, I hope that YOU will share!

For now, back to the candles and the poetry...